Chicken Meatballs and Feeding Picky Toddlers

When Kate Samela, a top pediatric nutritionist in Connecticut had her second child, it challenged some of her long-held beliefs about toddlers and picky eating. Her discoveries in parenting a picky eater for the first time not only gave her more empathy for her clients, but also motivated her to write her first book, Give Peas a Chance: The Foolproof Guide to Feeding Your Picky Toddler (Jan 2013, Parenting, $14.99). My first child Jake ate anything and everything you put in front of him. My daughter Maggie, however, was overall very skeptical about food, and was by todays definition, a picky eater, to the extent that she used to spit out every third bite of food. For the first time I was testing the advice I had doled out so easily to parents and it was hard." I challenged myself to really go back and look at the developmental phases of toddlers. I was also able to learn firsthand how little food toddlers really need. When parents say my kid eats nothing I can now better help parents realize that they probably arent doing as badly as they think because the quantity of food toddlers need is really so little. What looks like three bites of food might actually be enough. I asked Kate how parents can create lifelong healthy eaters from the beginning: First and foremost, model good eating. Kids need to see their parents making healthy food choices.  Second, be as neutral and non reactive as possible when a kid approaches the table or says they dont like something.  Your reaction is almost more important than them eating that food." Kids are programmed to want the attention of their parents. When a toddler sees a parent overreact, they think wow, she or he is more invested in me eating this than I am, and it becomes a point of control. Give Peas a Chance includes detailed guidance about what and how much to feed toddlers. It also includes some innovative tips for how to expand kids food repertoires.  One of Kates suggestions is to use kids favorite textures to broaden their list of accepted foods. The goal is to try and identify foods that are similar in texture and consistency to foods that s/he already eats and that have the same mouth feel.  The familiar and accepted texture can be a bridge to a new flavor or food. If they like Crunchy/Salty: Instead of Cheerios or Goldfish, try Terra Stix or mini rice cakes Sweet and Squishy: Instead of pancakes, try freeze-dried fruit cubes or sweet breads like pumpkin or zucchini Smooth and Slippery: Instead of string cheese, try a yogurt smoothie or pudding Soft/Mushy: Instead of mac and cheese, try sweet potato pancakes or oven-baked eggplant Parmesan Meatballs are a great form of protein for toddlers because their spongy texture is often more palatable and easier to eat, according to Kate. Older children will also enjoy eating a food that they can pick up with a toothpick and dip. Ive included Kates favorite meatball recipe, one of several recipes in her new book. (By the way, if you are looking for more ways to use meatballs in family meals, you can catch me making Meatball Orzo Soup and Mini-Meatball Subs last week on Lets Talk Live.)